One of the many beauties of being
an undergraduate is the freedom and power to dress as you like. Throw on a top
and a pair of jeans and you are good to go. Of course, students of some private
universities hardly enjoy this liberty. In the name of being prepared for the
corporate world, they are instructed to wear shirts and suits to attend
lectures. Some universities even go as far as restricting female students to
wearing skirts on campus. I know it isn’t a welcome idea for a lot of students.
I remember a couple of my friends always complained about how boring their
wardrobes were and how they could not wait to become graduates.
The irony.
The corporate world affects our
lives in ways that are almost synonymous to tyranny. Dedicating a huge chunk of
our time, which exceeds the stipulated 8-5 work hours when you factor in time
spent in getting to work and returning home is the least of the expectations
that accompany working as an employee. Think about it. There is a ‘dress code’
document in the file containing your employment letter. Some offices even have
it printed in bold letters and pasted in office corridors. Dark colours, less
patterns and predictable cuts.
Thing is, your wardrobe is importantly, a
reflection of the YOU that everyone perceives. Forget the cheesy ‘how you dress
is how you are addressed’ etc quotes that influence you in singling out an
outfit for an interview. I’m talking about people who live on your street and watch
you struggle for the bus every morning. That’s perception. The highest form of
addressment you are likely to cop from these people is a curt greeting,
especially if you live in Lagos. But these people, over time form an impression
about you. In fact, someday, their recommendation of you could be a lifeline.
The nature of your job defines
your wardrobe. It isn’t unusual that you see a fancy dress that you really like
but won’t buy because you spend a lot of time at work and do not have other
places to wear it to. Down to the basics, to the colours. Recently my boss
disapproved of a hairdo that I had thought was decent enough for the office. He
was gracious enough to have not said anything until I had changed the do and he
was very subtle about the reprimand. Of course, if I ever have that hairdo on
again, I would wear a wig on top to work.
Now that I look back to my
undergrad days, I am very happy of all the experimenting I did with clothes and
hairstyles. You know, gold colored weave, Anita Baker haircut and even a
‘Galax’, I think it is called. I remember one of my lecturers called me into
his office one day to ask what influenced my style. He told me in no few words
that it was a manifestation of my true personality. I wish he could see me now
to decide if somehow along the line, my personality was operated on.
Have a great weekend guys!
YS: Bisola Agboluaje
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